V is for Venita, not Vendetta

#1 This is game and always will be . #2 And since this is a game all is fare . There's nothing that is out of bounds. people will and do anything in here to serve there purpose . #3 Friends ya sure your lucky in life to count true friends on one hand . You find a friend in here your lucky but don't count on it your playing a game remember that. We have no idea who on the other side of the screen . #4 The fact people hide there true self and play with alt and man playing as women and women playing as men should tell everything you need to know . There a reason they hide in shadows and there purpose is not to make friends you can count on it . Take it and play it for what it is -don't sweat the small stuff -let the games begin--lol . .--P.s. to all the good people out there . thank you for being you .

Edited by st aug - 22 Dec 2013 at 22:55

Ander wrote: Spying is a really bad form of human behavior? Really? You are killing me!

At any point did those examples you raise make RL, out of game connections under false pretenses in order to further their spying aims? 

Without making a judgement call either way - your examples are different in a large degree to the case in the OP.

Deranzin wrote: What kind of friendship starts with such a blatant lie and what kind of person tries to sell friendship in order to infiltrate in an alliance in a GAME .?.

HATHALDIR wrote: If you bonded with a person over the internet, sounds like you have alot incommon in RL as well as playing Illy.

So the possibility of someone deceiving you on more levels than just wanting to spy in a game and that the other things "in common" might have been lies too, never crossed your mind .?.

HATHALDIR wrote: Playing styles aside, i think one should never pass up an opportunity at friendship, they come so rarely as we get get older they should be cherished and nurtured.

What kind of friendship starts with such a blatant lie and what kind of person tries to sell friendship in order to infiltrate in an alliance in a GAME .?.

As if you need all that and as if alliances do a background checks on who you are ... usually all you need to do is just apply and if you are civil about, they will let you in ... as you said, it IS a game, so those under-cover mumbo jumbo are unnecessary and only serve to hurt others when the ruse will be eventually discovered.

HATHALDIR wrote: Please remember this is a game, no-one can see your facial expression as you type, much nuance gets missed or misintepreted. I would go with your gut feeling.

Gut feelings do change you know ...

Ander wrote: People may not reveal their alt account when you meet them the first time. When you have developed a friendship with them, they may tell you about their alt if they think it is relevant to discuss. It doesn't mean that they were deceiving you so far, it just means that they trust you now.

If you bonded with a person over the internet, sounds like you have alot incommon in RL as well as playing Illy. Playing styles aside, i think one should never pass up an opportunity at friendship, they come so rarely as we get get older they should be cherished and nurtured.
Please remember this is a game, no-one can see your facial expression as you type, much nuance gets missed or misintepreted. I would go with your gut feeling.