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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote Legoman Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 29 May 2015 at 14:46
A number of large alliances together under one banner could be seen as bullying.
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A few of the previous posts demonstrate my point that the term "bullying" is now being thrown around so much that it is meaningless. Bullying is something that happens to real people in real life. Bullying cannot happen to imaginary characters in a fantasy game. If anyone take things that happen in a game like this seriously then I strongly suggest that they seek help from a mental health professional.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote IbnSenna Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 29 May 2015 at 12:18
mmh! claiming publicly that intruding on a territory, without any damage on existing investments, verges on threat, intimidation and should rightly be described as bullying.


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I think of it more as an in-game threat than bullying. When I think of bullying, I think of some big guy stealing your lunch money. You can't compare in-game threats to lunch money, they're not the same. If someone is forcing you to do something against your will [or else they mess you up] , you should say "Yo, this guy is threatening me." not "Yo, this guy is bullying me." When you say 'threatening' it doesn't necessarily relate to RL.  

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Problem is that you tend to spread word bullying to everything you don't like to describe it negatively.  Violence, Intimidation, coercion and threats are part many things in real world societies, legal systems, goverments and even in parenthood. Perhaps its not always good or right but it is simply so and still not bullying. But of course you can use or choose the dictionary definition you like.

In my opinion this is more accurate description of bullying from the wikipedia:
Bullying may be defined as the activity of repeated, aggressive behavior intended to hurt another individual, physically, mentally or emotionally. Bullying is characterized by an individual behaving in a certain way to gain power over another person.

That does not include competition over land or resources. I could suggest that Over claiming resources with out care of others could be calling Smorgasboarding if you like.
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Originally posted by ajqtrz ajqtrz wrote:

It's nice of GM Rikoo to say that 'bullying' is in the game.  But should it be?  And if so, should it be allowed via land claims, smorgasboarding, and any other things?  Is bullying healthy game play in a game that claims all players can play as they wish?

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aj, i have one simple question.  how are you going to stop bullying in game without bullying the bullies into stopping?  and if you do that then you would have to bully yourself for bullying them.  vicious cycle here where will it stop?
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"smorgasboarder" is a nice term.  However, one has to wonder why people are so reluctant to use a perfectly clear and applicable word like "bullying"

In another forum post I quote dictionary.com re what the word means.  If you look it up you find it accurately describes certain actions done in Illy.

Now GM Rikoo has defined those actions as "aggressive gameplay" rather than bullying.  I do think he's just afraid to use an over used and politically charged word to describe what is occurring and will probably occur often in Illy.  It is this sensitivity to the social and political echos surrounding the word that most players, I think are experiencing.  And they have a right to be uncomfortable with the word because bullying is uncomfortable to those who are being bullied, in Illy or anywhere else for that matter.

But really what we are experiencing here is not about the game, but about whether one has the right to use force to make another person shut up.  Are the larger players also going to control what is said in the forums?  And since the forums may cover wider topics than GC, is it okay for me to take offense at your political position and then to "take it out on you" in the game? 

The more we allow players to attack smaller players for what those smaller players say (within reason of course), the more we make the same dominance in the actual game prevalent in the forums.  Somehow I think the forums should be a place of free discussion rather than a place where I must not express views contrary to those of larger alliances.

I agree with Rill that whatever is allowed in the game is allowable....but if so let us be clear about what we are allowing.  If we see a "new" rule (for TBL anyway) that appears to us to be unhealthy or just bad for the game, we have to have a long discussion about it.  That's what we are doing.  And if that rule is proven to be a bad thing for the game or a bad thing altogether, we need to keep it from becoming a rule at all.

It's nice of GM Rikoo to say that 'bullying' is in the game.  But should it be?  And if so, should it be allowed via land claims, smorgasboarding, and any other things?  Is bullying healthy game play in a game that claims all players can play as they wish?

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Brand, in general I agree with you:  Anything within the rules of the game is "acceptable."  Whether it is wise or not is another matter.  Sometimes one has to pick one's battles, and if the other side is fighting with words, then in-game actions won't deprive their words of their power.  Indeed, it may just serve to give people more of a platform to expound on the issue.

At the same time, using game mechanics is FUN. As I have been known to say ...

"Less talking, more sieging!"

I guess to me the question is, what increases the net fun of the game -- both for me and for others.  Smorgasboarding new players is probably not going to be that fun for me, and rarely will be fun for them.  (Unless I smorgasboard them gently, such as sending an overabundance of ceramic materials.)
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I did not say you COULD NOT call it bullying. If I seemed to say that at some point, I apologize. 

EDIT: If you read carefully what I said, you will see that I am simply saying that whether or not the in-game "bullying" can be defined as bullying doesn't matter... because it's in game.

If it extends to REAL LIFE threats or intimidation -- something that you would find in, say, a real life situation like grade school -- then it is the type of bullying I will not tolerate.

If you needed clarification, this is from my earlier post:

"You can say the in-game combat is bullying as well, I don't care. The point is that there is a very REAL result from one, and the in-game result from this one. In-game results do not affect you in real life in any way that I can help."

If you have any other questions about rules, fine, but do not troll threads. If you do, you risk deletion/banning from the forums.

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Edited by GM Rikoo - 29 May 2015 at 03:11
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote Brandmeister Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 29 May 2015 at 02:27
It seems natural that trash talking in a video game could lead to in-game action. That's been the norm in every other MMO that I have ever played. Illyriad offers a range of retaliation from the mostly harmless (blights, feints) through annoyance (thieves, saboteurs, attacks) all the way through to destruction (sieges).

It doesn't seem reasonable for people to exchange some insults in GC and then get razed back to the ring. But if people are verbally pushing and shoving, then a little in-game pushing and shoving seems natural. If the trash talking escalates, then the in-game action can escalate as well. Honestly, I'd rather people resolve some tension via battle in the game, rather than bellowing at each other in GC or the forums. The screaming matches are what made the last big war so tiresome.

Smorgasbording a new player is more suspect. If they are trolling GC and acting like barbarians, then sure, smorgasbord them with diplos and armies. Razing seems completely unnecessary in that situation.
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