This is where I stand (H/C war)
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Topic: This is where I stand (H/C war)
Posted By: SunStorm
Subject: This is where I stand (H/C war)
Date Posted: 15 Oct 2012 at 08:11
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Now with KillerPoodle's post for the general public, I will state my opinion on the matter as well. No doubt many will feel that I have been corrupted, but I can accept being rejected by the community if it comes to it.
When these attacks began (the RHY/ABSA ordeal – for which I knew nothing about until it hit the forum), I was shocked that ABSA had jumped in as quickly and recklessly as they had. I even made mention of this in my early posts. I was asked by my leadership to refrain from posting on this topic. They have only asked this of me once before, and I respect their requests of me as much as they respect my opinions and insights. When war was declared, I became a pariah among many. Messages came to my inbox asking what I was still doing in Harmless. Please understand, these were all meant with the best of intentions, and I respect the players who were truly concerned with my future in this game were I to continue in this alliance.
For this short moment, I would like to provide some background information regarding myself and Harmless. When Lorre left {P A}, as well as Corwin, Artorious, Artacia, and every other remnant of old {P A}, I was completely crushed. I once told Lorre that if I ever did leave, I would probably go join Harmless. Was it because they were #1? No. Whenever I was having troubles in the game, needed advice, simply wanted someone to talk to, or was being harassed by others – Harmless was there. They were strategic, well organized, and a very mature group of players. Sadly, these qualities were lacking in the alliance I was in. If I had it to do all over again, I would not have chosen differently.
Now recently I have been left to question where I stand in regards to this RHY/ABSA ordeal. Apparently I am guilty by association. And yes, the actions of the alliance began to devastate me. How could we be reinforcing RHY’s sieges that were made on members of ABSA who had absolutely nothing to do with the conflict. I was reading the forums and searching for answers. I responded to the messages I had received and asked players not to judge me for the actions of my alliance, and I told my alliance that I could not in good conscious send any troops for this cause in addition to making known my opinions/objections. Where do my loyalties lie? Do I sacrifice my morals or my alliance?
Furthermore, I kept reading through the forums and I became disgusted by the malicious words that were being said. Most of which were coming from my own alliance! How is it that we feel the need to stoop so low as to turn the name of a Confederation into a mockery of soupiness. Though this started as a simple joke, for me it has gone too far.
And lastly, there has been talk in the forums about conspiracies and hidden agendas. As KillerPoodle stated in the forums, “We don't attack random folk just because they happen to be in an alliance we are having a disagreement with.” I was partially aware of what was going on, and I asked my leadership to simply come clean about all this rather than let people speculate.
With all this compounding, I was prepared to part ways with Harmless. I asked the people who had contacted me to be patient because I was contacting my leadership regarding how I felt. And I am glad I did. Almost immediately the name calling ceased. Additionally, I have had time to breath and look at things for what they are. Although some in my alliance might have simply kicked me for even hinting at leaving them, Harmless took the time and effort to write this post (http://forum.illyriad.co.uk/the-full-story_topic4334.html) for the public. I respect and admire them for taking this step.
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Now I am going to openly state how I feel and where I stand on all this.
First, it is exceedingly tragic that RHY targeted players who weren’t even involved in the dispute. But what is even more tragic is when you stop to think that this could have all been prevented. No, I am not going to go into who is right and who is wrong on the whole “rare mine” dispute, but when alliances are in the stage of diplomacy...pull your heads out of your @&$ and be diplomatic. The leadership of ABSA had their chance and blew it. RHY had opened up communication and made know what they felt was appropriate for the unmerited attack. Why then would you ignore this as if you thought they would back down once the deadline hit? I had a similar dispute once, and when the deadline hit I sent out my siege (this siege story was made public on the closed Consone thread, and I will be referencing it again). So in all reality, this is a very tragic event in that the leadership of ABSA caused their own players to lose cities. The only wrong step those players made was that they trusted their leaders to actually do their job. For those players who lost cities from this, I am truly sorry.
Secondly, I am frustrated with my alliance’s choice to aide in the destruction of those cities, but I am even more frustrated with the actions of the Consone alliance which has brought this about. I want to be abundantly clear here because I truly went to great lengths to expose such problems which I felt Consone might potentially be facing. I will compile (without the colors) some of those comments I made:
SunStorm wrote:
“There is great potential as long as this Confederation draws a line as far as military involvement is concerned.”
“If you go down that path of using military action where you have no business and are lacking all the facts, then your Confederation will have failed at their goal.”
“If any military action is made by this Confederation, there will be repercussions beyond what anyone can imagine.”
“I wouldn't expect these 11+ alliances to have laid out plans for how to deal with every situation, but I was hoping that some of these scenarios and examples would press this Confederation to address real issued before they ever arise.”
“Your intentions may be good, but are you ready for the backlash of evil that will arise once you all band together on a matter?” |
Those were all direct quotes from my posts (pages 9-13 on the closed Consone thread). I asked (and even referenced to the fact that I had asked) more than 10 times for Consone to officially speak regarding their plans for military involvement. I laid out some key points that I felt were crucial to Consone’s future and well-being. Those three major ones being:
SunStorm wrote:
- Alliances/players will continue to function and work out their own problems among the other alliances/players - Consone will not be stepping in to meddle or dictate how others should play.
- Consone will strive to defensively (not aggressively) help the weaker alliances and players when they are clearly and blatantly being oppressed by others.
- Actions made rashly by individuals and alliances within the Consone Confederation will be handled on a case-to-case basis and Consone will remain entirely neutral if the individual or alliance is found to be at fault. (That is, they will not continue to aid and defend someone that is guilty of war crimes.)
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Now I can spin this all day saying: “This mine dispute did not involve ABSA and that they stepped in to meddle in the on-going issue between RHY and SkB – ABSA was not the being blatently oppressed by RHY – those actions made by ABSA were rash and Consone did not remain neutral concerning this alliance.” I could call you all out on the hypocrisy here; but then again, Consone never officially confirmed these points which I had been asking clarification on.
This is where my frustration stems from. I saw the good in this confederation. I took the time to point that out in my posts. I even endured public ridicule for pressing you so hard on those issues which I saw as potential problems. I have never once used your Confederations name as a mockery. I truly hoped it would work out for you...but I also saw how horribly this would turn out once there was a challenge presented. For ABSA (an alliance in Consone that is not involved in the dispute over a mine) to launch an attack while the two alliances that are directly involved (RHY and SkB) are close to sorting the whole mess out was a bad move. Their refusal to use proper diplomatic channels caused those sieges to be sent – this cannot be denied. Now Consone responds in a predictable way and attacks those sieges. I am sure I would have done the same, but it only served to escalate the matter. Had no other alliances gotten involved, this would have been between RHY and ABSA (The two alliances who should be rightfully fighting it out even now).
I will once again post the warning I made throughout the Consone thread regarding the town I sieged:
SunStorm wrote:
“There are varying reasons why this would fail as a military confederation. Mainly, there is never any "Just War." Both sides always argue that they are fighting for the right cause. My reasons for attacking someone may not look "just" in another's eyes, but I would not be attacking unless I felt justified.”
“What if someone was under siege and you felt like they needed help? . . . I once laid siege to a player who attacked one of my siege camps on another inactive and unaffiliated player. (FYI, I was still in {P A} at the time.) I gave him 3 days to respond and reimburse my losses . . . The player sent me a rather rude and disrespectful reply. I stuck to my word and waited three days...then sent out a siege to his city. . . . Had someone attacked my siege on him - oh, I would have been very upset.”
“Again, If my siege had been attacked because someone felt the need to meddle and police against injustices (Yes, I was a larger player sieging a smaller), then I would have been furious.”
“I have not seen Consone police anyone. I was not stating that I had. I am simply speculating that if it begins it will end badly. I am trying to look down the road when a major issue does arise (as it inevitably will).” |
This has now become a reality. Actions have been taken where they were not needed and this whole ordeal has spiraled out of control. Consone has failed in what they had hoped would be a glorious reign of peace; and no, I take no joy or pleasure in this. I only wanted the best for you, but I will not side with you on this one – especially after my urging you to clarify your military stance and pressing you to look towards possible (unfavorable) outcomes. All of this could have been avoided. (~_~)
Although it seems like I am solely speaking to Jasche, this is not the case. One man cannot govern and speak for so many (although he is the person to speak “officially” for Consone). I have appreciated every post he has made because I find them to be well thought out and eloquently written. I have a great respect for him in taking on the public responsibility of addressing issues relating to Consone. I want to be completely clear on this, it is a HUGE burden for anyone to lead even ONE alliance...let alone 11+. I cannot even fathom how stressful this must be. For that alone, you have my deepest admiration and respect. No, Consone surely has a counsel in which these issues could have been discussed and considered. It would have behooved Consone to discuss the possibility of an all-out war prior to its onset. In that sense, this might have been stopped had Consone furnished a policy in which diplomatic channels would always precede attacking a 3rd party who is in negotiations with someone else.
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So where does this leave me? I have no desire to leave the alliance I love. I will stay in Harmless until they decide they are tired of looking at me. I appreciate all the concern players have shown over my choice – whether I would seek out another alliance or not. My resolve is strong and I am willing to take whatever attacks or blights players have in store for me; however, I will not involve myself in this dispute. Since this whole thing could have been prevented by not attacking, I also chose not to attack. This goes for magic and diplomacy as well. Feel free to check my stats and see whether or not they alter during this war.
With that said, I will attack sieges if they are made on members of my alliance and I am close enough to do so. If I am outright attacked, I will add the attacker’s name to my alliance’s list of possible targets. I may even launch a siege of my own in response. I will defend myself, and I will hold my ground.
I wish everyone the best.
Edit: I have withdrawn my membership from Harmless. Nothing more need be said on the matter.
------------- "Side? I am on nobody's side because nobody is on my side" ~LoTR
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Replies:
Posted By: Hadus
Date Posted: 15 Oct 2012 at 08:27
I don't really know you, SunStorm, but you've earned my respect. If everyone was as diplomatic and well-spoken as you, I imagine this war would be non-existent.
Thank you for taking the time to post a well though out, level-headed reply, that is as objective as possible for someone on one side of the dispute.
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Posted By: Rasak
Date Posted: 15 Oct 2012 at 09:00
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Sunstorm,
I don't even know where to begin. I think you have covered everything very well. You have always been someone I have looked up to, even now.
I have been asking everyone why all the hard feelings against H? when in almost every post you can substitute the words Harmless for Consone and Rhy for Absa and still get a post that makes sense.
I do think H? has been a little harsh in some of their comments lately, and I would like to see them take their more familiar method of poking holes in the understanding of the uninformed rather than taking pot shots at people. That said, I think that Harmless? and Consone have been very symmetrical in this. It would be difficult to find something you could say about Consone that didn't easily apply to Harmless?, and it would be just as difficult to find something you could say about Harmless that didn't apply to Consone.
I recently held a chat with Rill about this very topic, though I don't think I made myself very clear It seems this might be a better approach then the methods I took.
The only thing I can say for certain given the information I have is that Consone has been better behaved on the forums that I can see, however, every level of escalation of this event was first taken by them as well. Some might say actions speak louder than words, and if this is the case the actions of Consone and H? should be judged as such.
I am digressing, I wish to thank you for a wonderful post and I hope that noone will visit your cities that shouldn't. I support your view of events and believe it to be honorable.
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Posted By: HATHALDIR
Date Posted: 15 Oct 2012 at 13:01
The Eagles will continue to acknowledge and respect your wishes Sunny
------------- There's worse blokes than me!!
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Posted By: Uno
Date Posted: 15 Oct 2012 at 13:39
You had a similar story and you sent a siege? I mean... people are sieging over a mine dispute and think it's all fine and dandy? It is only tragic if the player you sent a siege to doesn't back down. If he backs down it's all ok. Hmmkay... good to know where you stand. And yeah, I think you joined the right alliance for your style. The only problem is that not everyone will back down. Personally I think that playing a game where someone think they are in the right to exclude me from mining a mountain 2 square from my town doesn't make any sense. Why would I continue to play a game under these conditions? You perhaps forgot that this is only a game not real life and that the result of you and your alliance threatening and bossing around those who do not devote completely to warfare will only make them quit and play another game that at least makes sense playing.
------------- Eréc of Caer Uisc King of Dyfneint Indomiti Alliance
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Posted By: Vanerin
Date Posted: 15 Oct 2012 at 15:37
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SunStorm,
Excellent post. It, H?'s actions mentioned in resolving your concerns, and you are a great credit to Harmless. Thank you for the well thought out and balanced post.
~Vanerin
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Posted By: Corwin
Date Posted: 15 Oct 2012 at 15:51
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I pretty much agree with everything you say there sunny (mainly cause I'm flattered my name was in there). This whole thing could have been prevented in a much earlier stage. But it wasn't. Somehow we ended up at opposing sides in this conflict, but I know you're a good guy (except for all those colored posts you made : P) . I hope this insanity will be over fast and we don't have to be enemies for too long.
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Posted By: BlindScribe
Date Posted: 15 Oct 2012 at 17:46
Posted By: HonoredMule
Date Posted: 15 Oct 2012 at 18:28
If it's only a game, then people shouldn't send sieges over disputes. (I guess nothing outside a city is supposed to matter, including things that directly affect the cities themselves.) If it's only a game, then people shouldn't care about getting sieged. (I guess the effort building a city isn't supposed to matter.) Wait, what? Yes, and even further: If it's only a game, then people shouldn't hold back from playing (within the game) to win. If it's only a game, then there's no such thing as wrong (morally or otherwise) outside of actual rule violations.
Conclusion: "It's only a game" is a nonsensical metric akin to "how many angels on a pinhead." And whatever that statement is supposed to mean, Illyriad is clearly not "only a game" anyway.
So maybe we should restrict our reasoning to logical statements that don't defy reason itself. Statements like: What kind of game is it? A game with cities and armies and siege engines. A game with things we own (cities), and things we control (anything else), and reasons to control them, and not enough of anything to go around, and alliances, and ranking systems, and a half-dozen other subsystems that all revolve around the production and improved effectiveness of armies. I'm going to go out on a limb and summarize that as "a competitive war game." What kind of alliance is Harmless? A military alliance. What kind of alliance is Invictus? A military alliance. What are we here for? To play the game. What game? The one with cities and siege engines. And finally: If disputes are not reason enough to employ siege engines, what is? If a military alliance is not a valid target for military aggression, what is?
So, while I respect SunStorm's stance on our war, his position is clearly contrary to not only Harmless's position in this war but our very core tenets in general, and I cannot respect how he has acted upon that position. So, as he now parts ways with us in spirit if not person, I feel the need to clarify a few points related to that departure:
- KillerPoodle's public post was not a direct response to SunStorm's requests, but a matter of laying out our perspective in the very same fashion as we have done in any previous conflict. (As it turns out, SS was led to believe this was a result of his request, which was an innocent miscommunication on our part.) We considered forgoing such, but in the end were compelled to make a stand for the sake of some newer allies who were unaccustomed to and upset by the vitriol and blind malice that regularly flies at the #1 alliance and anyone connected to it. I personally found it very confusing that in your messages to us, Sunstorm, you placed far greater emphasis on the publication of honorable intent and justification then the actual possession of honorable intent and justification. That's not upholding honor, it's just protecting your image. And speaking for the Directors, we have better things to do than parade ourselves for Illy's political pundits. Even now I speak for the sake of our allies and own members.
- I wasn't one of the people prone to calling Consone "Soup" so I cannot comment on how closely related the halt on that may be, but for the record I have no problem with it. It's not exactly offensive, now is it? I say worse things to my friends, and they laugh. And do you know just how many thousand variations and associations my fellow directors can find for a player named Mule? My enemies do it too, and with entirely different intent, but you won't find that anywhere in our list of even minor grievances. I'm too old for such petty drama. Nevertheless, while SunStorm doesn't have as much unilateral influence as he seems to think, it is likely that people stopped out of consideration for his sensibilities. I don't think anyone else cared, and certainly haven't had any indication that they do, whether "they" are within our alliance or within Consone or elsewhere.
- SunStorm, I cannot help but question the logic behind your sense of honor that you would avoid bringing up your misgivings in our forums so as not to undermine our leadership, but instead voice them to our enemies prior to any due diligence in research, and now in public even after having been given factual justification which you in part simply discarded. I cringe to make this accusation, but it sounds like the real issue was the size of your audience...especially since your last response to a Director had indicated you were satisfied with our justification and methods after hearing more of the story. There's a serious disconnect here; a major inconsistency in how you apply whatever concepts of honor you're holding which doesn't seem overly influenced by the facts or the fallout from your actions. By being loyal to everyone, you have been loyal to no one. And while what you've said here on this forum isn't so bad really, I am personally saddened by the negative and hurtful assumptions you shared with our opponents about us before you even knew what was going on. We as a whole alliance deserved more courtesy than that at least, and since you didn't even feel the need to redact anything (to them or in your later reports to us) I can only assume you remain completely oblivious to the disservice you rendered to us.
- Furthermore, the entire lynchpin of your complaint now is based on the assumption that the sieged towns were not involved in the original conflict when in fact they were. So it wasn't proven to your satisfaction...RHY isn't a big alliance like us, and they're not accustomed to the rigors of good record keeping and such. But it's hard to say if this ever really mattered to you, since your messages of disapproval just assume RHY were at fault and predate even the attempt to get the facts from us or anyone else actually involved. Frankly, it shouldn't matter, when the straw that breaks the camel's back actually has such a marginal role in breaking the camel's back.
- Our members are encouraged to have their own opinions and share them. We don't owe the public a bent rusty nail, but it is to our members that we are responsible. I didn't take point responding to your concerns, but if I did, I would have expressly asked you to bring it up in the alliance forums where all can contribute to the conversation. If you really wanted to affect the course of things, there you would have had a chance by swaying the opinions of your fellow members. And perhaps if you had been as well-versed in the contents of our own forums and experiences of our members as you seem to be in what slander gets thrown at us here, you'd not have had to wonder why this was as much our conflict as RHY's. There were certainly plenty of threads by your fellow members outlining the issues they were having with players in multiple Consone alliances, and the wholly unsatisfactory resolutions they got. Then there was also my post which expanded that view by sharing a fairly thorough background on our position as leaders of the alliance. I'm not sure what more invitation you could have needed to voice your opinion in response.
In summation, I believe you are trying to act according to your conscience, but your proclivity for the limelight of a stage clouds your view, and I'm personally very disappointed. You didn't know about our close relationship with RHY, so you felt free to presumptuously assign blame to them, satisfying your thirst for an honorable position that gets to perform some theatrical moral objection. Now because you didn't assess them fairly, you're forced to asses us in connection to them, and can't match up the new result with the old. There's a reason for that: either you're wrong about us and them now, or you've been wrong about us all along before. Either way, for many reasons we'd outlined for you and all members (mostly for the sake of newer ones and limited-access initiates with less knowledge of the already visible background), this war is every bit as much ours as RHY's.
The position you're taking is one that finds fault with the blasting cap in this explosion while ignoring all the actual payload. Maybe you need to review who we are as an alliance. Keeping the powder wet is simply not our priority. Quite the opposite, burning it off before it's too big to contain is. When you read this you'll see we haven't dropped you from the alliance, but perhaps it is time you considered finding a home more in line with your priorities. It makes no sense for you to remain with us if, independently from any facts related to the cause or appropriateness, you outright object to the act of war itself. We are warriors. However honorable we try to keep our causes, and however deserving and challenging we want our opponents to be, ultimately this is what we do.
------------- "Apparently, quoting me is a 'thing' now." - HonoredMule
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Posted By: Vanerin
Date Posted: 15 Oct 2012 at 18:45
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I do not wish to debate this topic, but I do not view SunStorm as a "limelight seeker" as certain players like to label other players. HonoredMule should certainly have his opinion, but I would like to have on record that not everyone agrees.
~Vanerin
Edit: silly grammer stuffs
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Posted By: Uno
Date Posted: 15 Oct 2012 at 21:30
HonoredMule wrote:
Conclusion: "It's only a game" is a nonsensical metric akin to "how many angels on a pinhead." And whatever that statement is supposed to mean, Illyriad is clearly not "only a game" anyway.
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It's only a game and when people are pissed off they have all chances to quit it, unlike real life where you can't do anything like that. Never did I speak of metrics... the only nonsensical thing I can read in this post is your opinion (presented as a matter of fact) about Illyriad not being only a game.
------------- Eréc of Caer Uisc King of Dyfneint Indomiti Alliance
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Posted By: SunStorm
Date Posted: 15 Oct 2012 at 22:10
HonoredMule wrote:
either you're wrong about us and them now, or you've been wrong about us all along before. | Apparently I have been wrong about a great many things. Harmless, I wish you all the best. Truly.
------------- "Side? I am on nobody's side because nobody is on my side" ~LoTR
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Posted By: abstractdream
Date Posted: 15 Oct 2012 at 22:21
Here are my thoughts on this, for what they're worth.
The absence of real consequences makes Illy "only a game" in my opinion. All the variations and addendums make it quite a fascinating game but still a game.
I first thought it odd that any member of a clearly defined, militarily powerful and ominous alliance within this game would publicly voice dissent, until I realized that like my own alliance it too is made up of real people.
I found SunStorm's line of questioning of Consone to be quite relavent and was interested in the response. I find his questioning of H?'s motives to also be relavent and interesting. Honored Mule's reply was eloquent and very satisfying.
Having no dog in this race I eagerly await the next chapter in the H?/Consone saga.
------------- Bonfyr Verboo
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Posted By: KillerPoodle
Date Posted: 15 Oct 2012 at 23:03
When you have invested time and effort into building something and that thing is damaged or destroyed such that you have to rebuild it or start over then that is a real consequence regardless of whether the "thing" concerned is made from pixels or something "real".
For me the chance that things I have invested significant effort in might be destroyed gives the game it's edge/excitement/challenge, and is a big part of why I play.
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"a little name-calling is a positive thing." - Rill
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Posted By: Rorgash
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 00:59
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Its like saying this program i made over the past year spending every waking hour making and i pushed in every dime i had that you deleted was not real so why you so upset?
Its a game, but the TIME we put in is not, a "game" if you spend time in it is a part of your life, and your life is real, so your game life is real.
H? I hope for a good war, show us some action!
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Posted By: abstractdream
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 01:17
KillerPoodle wrote:
When you have invested time and effort into building something and that thing is damaged or destroyed such that you have to rebuild it or start over then that is a real consequence regardless of whether the "thing" concerned is made from pixels or something "real".
For me the chance that things I have invested significant effort in might be destroyed gives the game it's edge/excitement/challenge, and is a big part of why I play.
| Excellent point. I will not argue with you that there is a certain thrill when the mechanics of the game get into gear and that that thrill comes from the possibility of loss but at best this "realness" is just at the edge of "reality."
Except in some wild, fantastical, extreme example, no one who ever clicks a mouse in Illy is ever in any true danger whatsoever. It is true that time, effort and even money are good examples of real things that can really be lost, however at no time is there ever any tangible danger. No one dies, gets hurt or gets sick. Therein lies the seperation from reality.
There are always consequences, however I don't believe we should lump the consequences of pissing off some anonymous someone on the other side of a keyboard in with the consequences of pissing off someone standing in front of you. The only similarity with actual consequences I can imagine is if one becomes "addicted" to the game to the detriment of their real life.
That being said, I do see the point you make. I pretty much agree with what you say. I think we are simply seeing things at slightly different angles. We seem to be debating the nuances of what is and isn't real and I believe eventually we will not be able to slice it any thinner and the debate will stall.
------------- Bonfyr Verboo
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Posted By: Rorgash
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 01:38
Im here its real, Alot of people waves around the reality stamp trying to tell me my life playing games is not reality and i should get out and what? drink booze get drunk and have sex with random people, is that life? I have alot more fun then they ever seem to have every day, im here to stay and you can drink your poison and do your "looking at faces" thing and i will just have more fun then you :P
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Posted By: Salararius
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 03:39
SunStorm wrote:
In that sense, this might have been stopped had Consone furnished a policy in which diplomatic channels would always precede attacking a 3rd party who is in negotiations with someone else. |
This summary doesn't include SkB's perspective on the "negotiations". Is that fair?
The bigger point is:
What I hear you saying is that if any confederate of any member of Consone feels that negotiations are not working out and calls on said member of Consone for help that Consone member should try to restart negotiations per Consone rules (laws?). Also, Consone should do likewise before assisting a Consone member from attacks. Is that true and fair? You also believe that before H? attacked Absa and Consone, it too should have tried to restart negotiations. Is that also correct? Do you think H? attacked Absa when the active members attacked or when members left to join RHY to attack Absa? Are those members welcome back into H?
http://elgea.illyriad.co.uk/#/Player/History/1179" rel="nofollow - http://elgea.illyriad.co.uk/#/Player/History/1179
I think Absa did mess this up. I think Consone messed up and I think H? has messed up. I think Neytiri messed up and Messer and Hugie but so too did Dave888 and lots of members of RHY. I think SkB messed up. I know I've said lot's of things that I think are a mess and I'll probably be attacked at some point because of them (I'm on that list, right). Russian Blue messed up too, she trusted the wrong people, so too did Zebazga, Skim Milk, Snapdragon, Calisi. It's a leap to justify an action because the target isn't flawless.
An alliance or confederation is only as good and just as it's members. If an alliance or confederation has secret members or members that can leave and do as they like and return, what is the point of alliance rules?
We can talk about rules, but does H? have rules. I was curious after all your posts and I looked for them. How many people reading your posts have read the Diplomacy section of H?s alliance page? It has things that may be rules, but nothing they would go on record stating is actually a rule. If something stated actually is a rule, the document goes on to state there may or may not be a repercussion for that rule. Furthermore, those repercussion are at the discretion of H? #1 alliance, no rules. That's a precedent. According to the posts you've made, not a good one. Essentially, no promises given, no quarter asked, no quarter received. That would be easier to write.
You state your frustration because you see the good in Consone. What is that good? Is there good in H? Do you feel as KP does that Consone is composed of anti-H players? Is it most members in Consone or just a core. Will you please tell the poor manipulated masses in Consone who those players are and if they are in Absa?
Speaking of KP, I read his post in response to your praise. I read 9 paragraphs vaguely discussing the history of Illy and the genesis of the current situation is summed up with "they acted like ass holes". Superficially, it seems insightful, but then I thought about what it said and it wasn't really insightful. Why is it that H? members will not examine the details of the genesis of the current conflict?
RHY was negotiating (if you don't shed more light on the meaning and context of this word in this part of the conflict then this isn't really meant to be a fair discussion) and Messer sent troops, and told RHY troops were coming (is this agreed on), RHY left the troops there because Messer had no right to do that. It all went from there because Absa wouldn't negotiate. It seems to be a big deal that Messer wasn't in SkB. It seems to be a big deal that Messer and the big guys in Consone did not transfer to SkB like Phym did before sending troops. Is that Absa and Consone's biggest mistake?
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Posted By: Darmon
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 05:37
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As a newish player, I think HM's post contained some interesting points.
HonoredMule wrote:
You didn't know about our close relationship with RHY, so you felt free to presumptuously assign blame to them, satisfying your thirst for an honorable position that gets to perform some theatrical moral objection. |
Do H? members not know who their own secret allies are? I thought the allies were just supposed to be secret to outsiders? Some kinda...double-secret allies? This seems like one potential downside to non-public relationships.
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The position you're taking is one that finds fault with the blasting cap in this explosion while ignoring all the actual payload. |
I'm not sure this analogy did you much service. I guess you must be talking about some sort of payload that is inherently unstable, and the blasting cap is only necessary for a more reliable detonation? I don't really know anything about explosives, but I just watched the episode of Mythbusters where they tried/failed to detonate C4 using everything but a blasting cap.
Isn't it kind of like saying it's the guns fault if you shoot someone? I mean, I guess technically you couldn't "shoot" someone (with a gun) if you didn't have a gun. But likewise, guns don't usually go around shooting people themselves.
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Maybe you need to review who we are as an alliance. Keeping the powder wet is simply not our priority. Quite the opposite, burning it off before it's too big to contain is. |
Can I quote you on this? I mean, again? Some other time(s)/place(s)? I hear from other people's forum signatures that you're quite quotable, and I found this excerpt particularly illuminating.
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Posted By: STAR
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 06:15
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Although i agree with some of your points regarding the absa and rhy situation and see that you have taken your own quotes from the Consone thread, i do feel that it was wrong of you to voice your opinions and views against your own alliance.
At the end of they day, they were your fellow team mates and your allegiance should of been with them first and foremost regardless of how much you wanted to speak your mind.
Anyway, all the best with your new endeavours
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Posted By: Gon
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 06:22
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"To thine own self be true." Billy Shakespeare
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Posted By: KillerPoodle
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 06:24
Darmon wrote:
As a newish player, I think HM's post contained some interesting points.
HonoredMule wrote:
You didn't know about our close relationship with RHY, so you felt free to presumptuously assign blame to them, satisfying your thirst for an honorable position that gets to perform some theatrical moral objection. |
Do H? members not know who their own secret allies are? I thought the allies were just supposed to be secret to outsiders? Some kinda...double-secret allies? This seems like one potential downside to non-public relationships. |
There are different levels of access within H? (as there are in almost every alliance). A secret shared with 100 people is no longer a secret.
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Posted By: STAR
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 06:25
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Umm yeah that statement may be true when thine self is alone but when you decide to join a group of others
"be true to the ones that you are joining or dont join at all"
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Posted By: KillerPoodle
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 06:27
STAR wrote:
Umm yeah that statement may be true when thine self is alone but when you decide to join a group of others
"be true to the ones that you are joining or dont join at all"
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Indeed.
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Posted By: Darmon
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 06:58
KillerPoodle wrote:
Darmon wrote:
As a newish player, I think HM's post contained some interesting points.
HonoredMule wrote:
You didn't know about our close relationship with RHY, so you felt free to presumptuously assign blame to them, satisfying your thirst for an honorable position that gets to perform some theatrical moral objection. |
Do H? members not know who their own secret allies are? I thought the allies were just supposed to be secret to outsiders? Some kinda...double-secret allies? This seems like one potential downside to non-public relationships. |
There are different levels of access within H? (as there are in almost every alliance). A secret shared with 100 people is no longer a secret.
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In general, that makes sense. I'm sure intelligence leaks and spying are a concern in any team-based competitive game where you're allowed to have more than one presence (account, avatar, whatever) at a time. I'm just not sure of the scenario in which keeping allegiances secret is beneficial. I guess if you anticipate conflict, it can help mask your true military strength, and I'm sure there's an array of cloak-and-dagger type other uses.
I just wonder if this time it worked against you (unless you were looking for a fight, as some suggest). People might think twice about trying to take liberties with known-associates of H? -- or maybe Consone doesn't care and would take liberties anyway. I don't think anyone not involved in H?/Consone has a very solid idea about the number of preceding incidents people had regarding inflexible Consone diplomacy. A dozen? A hundred? Is it the same people over and over, or a significant number of seemingly random people?
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Posted By: BlindScribe
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 12:23
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Just to be sure I'm following the chain of logic here:
* In this thread, we've concluded that this isn't "just a game" (cos of the blood, sweat, time, tears, and money put into building your cities)
* We know (not from this thread, but just from experience in general) that things change over time (agencies, countries, alliances in a game, etc).
* We know (now, from this thread) that H? apparently even keeps its own membership in the dark about who their secret (ubersecret?) friends are
* We have a guy who joined an alliance thinking they were one thing...found out they were different, and is (apparently) leaving/being shown the door (not completely surprising, given that big chunks of H? membership aren't allowed even to know who their friends are, see above)
And the conclusion is that he's the bad guy? That he shouldn't have joined up at all if he couldn't "be true to the ones he's joining? (what happens if the ones you join aren't true to YOU? -- if they change, over time, into something you don't agree with (or have some ubersecret you're not privy to, but find out later)? - just asking the question.
I'm very small, and don't have a stake in the war either way.
One of you big guns could probably sneeze hard in my general direction and kill me, so I'm definitely not looking to pick a fight.
Just trying to understand what I view as a most "unusual" mindset. That's all. :)
~Scribe
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Posted By: HonoredMule
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 13:02
No one is calling SunStorm a bad guy but it does appear he misjudged us (as a whole alliance) and we misjudged him which simply means we are not a good fit for each other after all, having conflicting ideals.
I'm disappointed in how he handled this discovery, but overall bear no ill-will toward him and wish him the best as he did us. As for what happens when this kind of difference arises, you just saw it. We parted ways. You might also note that we didn't do it on convenient timing, after using up his troops in defenses and such.
As for the keeping of secrets, I've volunteered far more detail and background regarding that to our members than I care to discuss here, and they're equipped to decide for themselves if our conduct and strategy in this matter was appropriate and justified. You can make this a "leadership vs ignorant masses" thing all you
want, but we don't hold the #1 position by padding our ranks with
barely-active rubes. If anyone thinks otherwise, go right ahead and try to better "inform" them. If you're right, maybe more will leave. If you're really right, maybe a bunch will start giving their leaders feedback that they'd rather be headed in a different direction and sway us to rethink our approach.
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Posted By: BlindScribe
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 13:19
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Much appreciate the reply, HM...thank you.
Out of curiosity, how do you wish he would have handled it? - He found out that the alliance wasn't what he thought it was, he voiced his dissent, and now, is leaving.
What would you have had him do in place of those things? (Edit: Bearing in mind that we've already established that this isn't "just a game" and that this issue, taking place in full public view, was obviously something very important to him, and therefore, also likely to unfold in full view of the public--this isn't something that was ever going to go away in a series of quiet, backroom conversations, I don't think...not based on how much is already in the public eye)
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Posted By: dunnoob
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 15:19
BlindScribe wrote:
H? apparently even keeps its own membership in the dark about who their secret (ubersecret?) friends are | The NAP was published months ago in the http://elgea.illyriad.co.uk/#/World/HeraldDiplomatic" rel="nofollow - Herald Diplomatic , it was visible on the public alliance diplomacy pages, and players interested in diplomacy knew that the farmers rarely offer or accept NAPs.
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Just trying to understand what I view as a most "unusual" mindset. | Most players in my alliance don't care about diplomacy, and I guess that's the "usual" mindset everywhere.
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Posted By: BlindScribe
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 15:44
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Yes Dun...I "get" that NAP's are visible, but that's not really what was kept hid, was it? I mean...there's a difference between a NAP and a "secret confed" as it has since been described by members of H?, in these forums, right? (that is, after all, why we have two different designations...NAP and Confed, is it not?) chrome-extension://fcdjadjbdihbaodagojiomdljhjhjfho/css/atd.css" rel="nofollow -
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re: diplomacy...hey...whatever you prefer! I am merely asking questions to wrap my brain around the mindset so as to better understand.
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Posted By: Gossip Boy
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 16:09
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You might also note that we didn't do it on convenient timing, after using up his troops in defenses and such.
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So was it a mutual agreement to part ways or sunstorm left on his own accord?
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Posted By: dunnoob
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 16:29
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As far as I know the main differences between "confed" and NAP are the "edit alliance foreign affairs" permissions and the 10 square rule for exodus, otherwise the effects are identical. What it additionally means for the affected parties depends on the alliances and the folks who negotiated the NAP or confederation.
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Posted By: Darmon
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 16:30
BlindScribe wrote:
Yes Dun...I "get" that NAP's are visible, but that's not really what was kept hid, was it? I mean...there's a difference between a NAP and a "secret confed" as it has since been described by members of H? since, in these forums, right? (that is, after all, why we have two different designations...NAP and Confed, is it not?)
;)
re: diplomacy...hey...whatever you prefer! I am merely asking questions to wrap my brain around the mindset so as to better understand.
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I'm a little unclear of how H? treats the distinction as well. If they consider NAP the same as confed (which I really doubt), then I guess at some point in the future we should expect H? to rush to the Crows' defense (heh, imagine how mad that would make EF).
I had heard that H? is very choosy about their allies, but over the last few days 4 "new" confeds have been added to their diplomacy stats. Were these groups always aligned with H? and one side was too embarrassed to admit it (the non-H? side, I presume, if H?'s assertions about anti-H? sentiments are correct), or are these allegiances of convenience and the confeds will be dropped once the war is over?
Hmm. Something interesting I just noted while looking at their page. None of their Confederations were declared by them, and very few NAPs were. I assume this just indicates which side initiated the relationship (with the other agreeing to it). Maybe that's just a coincidence, but if so, it's a pretty interesting one.
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Posted By: BlindScribe
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 16:37
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Yes...that is true, but we can also glean at least something from the language and the definitions behind the words chosen, can we not? (I mean...that's not going too far out on a limb, right?)
NAP = Non Aggression Pact implies one "level" of relationship
while
"Confederation" implies quite something else (these, woven into the very fabric of the words chosen to represent them).
Sure...you could call that splitting hairs I guess, but there's some mighty important distinctions that live between those two sets of carefully chosen words, and the devil is always in the details.
Always.
That's why (strictly IMO) you guys get dinged so regularly here, and diplomatically.
Because in the public arena, words are important.
Sure, sure...you can play as a military alliance. You can ignore diplo, but IF you do, then it should come as no great surprise when you get dinged....kinda like you are now by in about a dozen different threads.
Believe me, I don't mention this to stir the pot or to cause trouble...as I said from the start, I only wanna better understand the mindset, cos it is very different from my own. But I do enjoy diplomacy, and I understand the metagame. In the above, I'm simply pointing out that TO YOU, the two (NAP vs Confed) might be no different in your mind.
But this does not hold true consistently, even within your own ranks (large groups of people kept intentionally in the dark about the true extent and nature of "friendships" as evidenced and supported by several H? posts in this very thread, for example)....so, while you personally might not find much difference between the two, I think it does not put me far out on a limb to say that your opinion is not universally held, and the space between the two explains much (but not all) of the reason you guys seem to struggle in the diplomatic arena, and it's cool. It's understandable.
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Posted By: Rorgash
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 16:38
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Another way to look at this
You have a trade agreement with another, that person gets attack, you cant intervien and fight for your trade ally to protect your trade and the people you have been talking with under a very long time?
BUT and a possible reason for lack of Confed is drawing their friends into the H? empire and put them in that position. Rather with a nap and being friends they can decide depending on whats happening they can either help or break their bonds.
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Posted By: BlindScribe
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 16:42
Darmon wrote:
BlindScribe wrote:
Yes Dun...I "get" that NAP's are visible, but that's not really what was kept hid, was it? I mean...there's a difference between a NAP and a "secret confed" as it has since been described by members of H? since, in these forums, right? (that is, after all, why we have two different designations...NAP and Confed, is it not?)
;)
re: diplomacy...hey...whatever you prefer! I am merely asking questions to wrap my brain around the mindset so as to better understand.
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I'm a little unclear of how H? treats the distinction as well. If they consider NAP the same as confed (which I really doubt), then I guess at some point in the future we should expect H? to rush to the Crows' defense (heh, imagine how mad that would make EF).
I had heard that H? is very choosy about their allies, but over the last few days 4 "new" confeds have been added to their diplomacy stats. Were these groups always aligned with H? and one side was too embarrassed to admit it (the non-H? side, I presume, if H?'s assertions about anti-H? sentiments are correct), or are these allegiances of convenience and the confeds will be dropped once the war is over?
Hmm. Something interesting I just noted while looking at their page. None of their Confederations were declared by them, and very few NAPs were. I assume this just indicates which side initiated the relationship (with the other agreeing to it). Maybe that's just a coincidence, but if so, it's a pretty interesting one. |
Like you, I have to raise a skeptical eyebrow at the notion that "NAP" and "Confed" are essentially interchangeable (for the reasons I touched on above), but hey...maybe to someone who acknowledges that diplo is basically ignored...*shrug* maybe they ARE considered to be close cousins.
I can tell you that our alliance treats the two very differently, and I'd imagine it's the norm (prevailing tendency) to do so.
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Posted By: KillerPoodle
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 17:16
Despite the fact that this game allows it there is no requirement that you make the number and strength of your allegiances public - especially if not doing so gives you an advantage. Information is power.
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Posted By: BlindScribe
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 17:32
KillerPoodle wrote:
Despite the fact that this game allows it there is no requirement that you make the number and strength of your allegiances public - especially if not doing so gives you an advantage. Information is power. |
I agree with this 100%.
Having said that, if you choose to go that route, a number of natural consequences follow, right?
By definition, in order to keep it a secret, it means that large segments of your own membership have to be kept in the dark (ref the earlier "large sections aren't even allowed to know who the alliance's friends are"), and this could lead to bad blood when it (inevitably) comes out later.
The second natural consequence would be the public perception of such skullduggery, which you're seeing now, in the form of...oh, about 9 threads and counting.
Again...I don't disagree with you, but also, I don't see why the backlash OF those actions seems to have caught you off guard. It seems to me to be an entirely predictable response to a chosen course of action, no?
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Posted By: SunStorm
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 17:41
BlindScribe wrote:
- He found out that the alliance wasn't what he thought it was, he voiced his dissent, and now, is leaving. |
Gossip Boy wrote:
So was it a mutual agreement to part ways or sunstorm left on his own accord? | This decision was
of my own accord. I acted out of place by making this post. I fully acknowledge this, and Harmless and I
have parted with no ill feelings.
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Posted By: Darmon
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 18:01
BlindScribe wrote:
KillerPoodle wrote:
Despite the fact that this game allows it there is no requirement that you make the number and strength of your allegiances public - especially if not doing so gives you an advantage. Information is power. |
I agree with this 100%.
Having said that, if you choose to go that route, a number of natural consequences follow, right?
By definition, in order to keep it a secret, it means that large segments of your own membership have to be kept in the dark (ref the earlier "large sections aren't even allowed to know who the alliance's friends are"), and this could lead to bad blood when it (inevitably) comes out later.
The second natural consequence would be the public perception of such skullduggery, which you're seeing now, in the form of...oh, about 9 threads and counting.
Again...I don't disagree with you, but also, I don't see why the backlash OF those actions seems to have caught you off guard. It seems to me to be an entirely predictable response to a chosen course of action, no?
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I assume they wanted to be on the irrefutably "right" side of this conflict (I mean, who wouldn't?), and that doesn't seem to be the way it's turned out (more shades of grey, at the very least). If you go around acting shady, people will probably suspect that you're up to no good. Also, does anyone know if there's an actual term for some sort of an inverted "fair-weather friend"?
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Posted By: SunStorm
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 18:32
Darmon wrote:
. . . does anyone know if there's an actual term for some sort of an inverted "fair-weather friend"?
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]The opposite of a fair-weather friend, a foul-weather friend only seeks you out if they have a problem, need a shoulder to cry on, a ride to town or someone to watch their dog, but otherwise they act as if they don't even know you. They're only your chum when they're glum. |
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Posted By: Darmon
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 19:21
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That delights me on a number of levels!
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Posted By: Gossip Boy
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 19:36
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This decision was
of my own accord. I acted out of place by making this post. I fully acknowledge this, and Harmless and I
have parted with no ill feelings.
Another Feast for crows i guess 
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Posted By: SunStorm
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 19:37
LoL (^_^) Glad to be of help with that.
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Posted By: KillerPoodle
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 20:06
BlindScribe wrote:
Again...I don't disagree with you, but also, I don't see why the backlash OF those actions seems to have caught you off guard. It seems to me to be an entirely predictable response to a chosen course of action, no?
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I don't think the fact that we didn't advertise our diplo relationships is a significant part of whatever anti-h? sentiment is being expressed.
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Posted By: BlindScribe
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 20:10
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KillerPoodle wrote:
BlindScribe wrote:
Again...I don't disagree with you, but also, I don't see why the backlash OF those actions seems to have caught you off guard. It seems to me to be an entirely predictable response to a chosen course of action, no?
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I don't think the fact that we didn't advertise our diplo relationships is a significant part of whatever anti-h? sentiment is being expressed. |
I know...you guys have expressly said that you're a military alliance. That diplo isn't something you care much for, or put a lot of time into, so I totally understand that you don't think the way in which you entered into the war (specifically to encompass the "uber top secret confed") has any particular bearing.
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Posted By: KillerPoodle
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 20:14
BlindScribe wrote:
KillerPoodle wrote:
BlindScribe wrote:
Again...I don't disagree with you, but also, I don't see why the backlash OF those actions seems to have caught you off guard. It seems to me to be an entirely predictable response to a chosen course of action, no?
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I don't think the fact that we didn't advertise our diplo relationships is a significant part of whatever anti-h? sentiment is being expressed. |
I know...you guys have expressly said that you're a military alliance. That diplo isn't something you care much for, or put a lot of time into, so I totally understand that you don't think the way in which you guys entered into the war has any particular bearing.
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Still disagree - I don't think anyone has been dissing us for supporting RHY.
The main complaint seems to be the kind of response - not that there was a response to support an ally.
The type of response has nothing to do with the secrecy or otherwise of our diplo relationship.
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Posted By: BlindScribe
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 20:15
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KP, I would not have expected otherwise. :) And you are certainly free to do so. You are focusing on one or two trees, and utterly missing the presence of the forest, but...as your own folks have said...this isn't really your strong suit. No shame in that...you've always played to your strengths and done it very well. It just happens that this isn't one of them. chrome-extension://fcdjadjbdihbaodagojiomdljhjhjfho/css/atd.css" rel="nofollow - chrome-extension://fcdjadjbdihbaodagojiomdljhjhjfho/css/atd.css" rel="nofollow -
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Posted By: SunStorm
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 20:32
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as your own folks have said...this isn't really your strong suit. | Who was saying this?
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Posted By: BlindScribe
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 20:36
Posted By: Darmon
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 21:33
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Right here in this thread...I forget who, but it surely seems a valid point, based on how the message got away from H? so quickly in this latest incident. Bottom line...where diplo is concerned, you either control the message, or it controls you (that's another kind of power)...H? has failed to control the message. chrome-extension://fcdjadjbdihbaodagojiomdljhjhjfho/css/atd.css" rel="nofollow -
You can point to any number of reasons why this is so, but often, the simplest explanations are correct. H? is an alliance of warriors. Diplo is...meh. |
I vaguely recall someone giving that impression as well, but on combing through this thread (albeit very hastily) I couldn't seem to locate the exact quote. Are you sure it wasn't in another thread? Personally, all these threads are starting to blur together in my mind...
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Posted By: BlindScribe
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 22:26
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That could well be...there have been so many! Which rather proves the point, I think. The messaging war was lost almost before this thing began...that we can no longer keep track of who said what, and when puts the exclamation point at the end of the sentence.
Regardless, I don't think anybody who comes here would argue that H? has, in any way "won" the messaging war, which also proves the point decisively.
I'm not sure they could have, based on what we now know, but there were specific strategies that could have been employed to at least give a fighting chance.
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Posted By: HonoredMule
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 22:39
BlindScribe wrote:
Much appreciate the reply, HM...thank you.
Out of curiosity, how do you wish he would have handled it? - He found out that the alliance wasn't what he thought it was, he voiced his dissent, and now, is leaving.
What would you have had him do in place of those things? (Edit: Bearing in mind that we've already established that this isn't "just a game" and that this issue, taking place in full public view, was obviously something very important to him, and therefore, also likely to unfold in full view of the public--this isn't something that was ever going to go away in a series of quiet, backroom conversations, I don't think...not based on how much is already in the public eye)
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The details you enumerate there are all ok. The problem arises mostly from other inappropriate and/or out-of-order steps not mentioned. There are a number of things we'd expect from someone who stands as one of us and thus claims a position of loyalty:
- First and very foremost, stay abreast of events and the information that is made available. It's hard to be a functioning member of the alliance if you don't know what's going on in it. Or if you're going to be completely oblivious, maybe don't demonstrate this in public so it looks like your alliance doesn't tell you anything.
- Second, give higher allegiance to one's current alliance and teammates than past acquaintances. Where loyalties still conflict, disclose such to your alliance and hold a neutral position.
- Respect the appointment of authority (which simply means do not attempt to perform a leadership role to which you've not been appointed either by selection or election, such as diplomat).
- When presented with something unknown, get the facts before passing judgment. That of course can apply anywhere, but when the case is being made against your own alliance, surely you'd ask for your own alliance's version of the story before presuming guilt.
- When in disagreement with your alliance, speak up to your alliance. All of it. Keeping "subversive" viewpoints buried may be what other alliances want, but Harmless members know we don't go for that spiderweb of 1-on-1 dealings nonsense, nor for covering up disagreements. That kind of hidden baggage weighs an alliance down and fragments it into pockets of divided loyalties, which heralds back to the issue with loyalties outside the alliance. There's supposed to be unity and solidarity.
- When in disagreement with your alliance and while still a representing member of that alliance, do not take up a role as secret advocate for the enemy. A public stand of neutrality/conscientious abstention is somewhat disloyal to your alliance too, but depending on how it's performed could fly somewhere in the vicinity of acceptable behavior for a current member. While a public statement did prompt the counter-statement to be made public as well, this is the least of the issues.
If there is a difference between member and alliance which cannot be resolved, it is appropriate to part, after which the only remaining expectation is that the ex-member not share intel or otherwise abuse privileges tied to the prior membership.
But while you are a member of an alliance, that alliance as a whole deserves your first consideration in all matters. Imagine if some key members told Harmless representatives they thought Harmless was in the right and all of Consone were 100% wrong--that they would try on Harmless' behalf to convince Consone to surrender--and then contacted Consone leadership and said "hey, I have no idea what's going on, so what's up with this?"
One last point. I can see how Harmless can be accused of failing to control the message diplomatically speaking, but you should understand that we've not really tried to do so. Honestly I'm surprised to see that there are even people left like yourself who bear a shred of objectivity and/or have intelligent questions or discussion. I normally wouldn't be bothering to carry any post-statement discourse at all. The last time I was here, the forum's atmosphere had devolved into utter despotism and inane punditry. I left because there was simply nothing worth being here for.
Yet even if that has changed, the fact remains that nothing is decided or controlled here--not even public opinion. Word-of-mouth and alliance-to-alliance dealings still carry the greatest weight and volume of information among the older alliances at least. Heck, before war broke out there was more activity and participation in Harmless's Embassy alone than the whole of these forums. Anything that takes place here and now is just a puppet show and parade for the new faces. And as much of a chaotic flurry as this seems, it also is just the same old song and dance from so many times before, and it's participants all comfortable in their familiar and well-practiced roles. Who in their right mind would lose sleep trying to control a propaganda war when there's no prize for winning? All those kind of prizes were handed out over the previous 3 months to 2 years (depending on how big a picture you're viewing).
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Posted By: HonoredMule
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 22:44
Also, while skimming over the thread I did see someone ask if they could quote something I said. I prefer not to be quoted out of context, but it's not like anyone can control how their words are used once published. At any rate, go right ahead. I think the quote in question is one of my more apt statements anyway, and I've never once been accused of humility.
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Posted By: The_Dude
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 22:59
HonoredMule wrote:
I've never once been accused of humility.
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I think HM is the most humble soul to walk the land of Illy. 
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Posted By: HonoredMule
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 23:00
Libel I say!
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Posted By: The_Dude
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 23:02
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Well, I was using myself as the standard of ego, so it is pretty easy to see you as humble.
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Posted By: BlindScribe
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 23:15
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HM, thank you again for the detailed, thoughtful reply. I appreciate it and it sheds a great deal of light on things.
Many of your enumerated points not mentioned by me were not not mentioned due to any attempted subterfuge on my part, but rather, because we (on the outside) were not privy to those actions (or lack of), and in at least a couple of cases, the points you raise could be regarded as subjective, and as such probably subject to at least some debate.
As to the rest...you are part of a strong and proud alliance with a rich history. Of those things, there can be no doubt or denial. Illy would literally not BE the game it is today, were it not for the actions of your alliance.
That said, you're only as good as your most recent epic (Custer was not remembered for his long and honorable military career, but rather, for his "last stand.") That is simply the way our histories work, and it's a trait of our own shared memory that has been transferred into Illy.
I can certainly appreciate that you'd pay a great deal of attention to the comings and doings of your own forum, but I would argue that by "writing these forums off" you are, in a sense, playing right into what your detractors keep saying about the alliance you hail from.
I have never been to the Harmless alliance forums.
I come here a lot.
When I come here, I often read about the stuff from here in GC, which tells me that the stuff posted here (visible to a minority of eyes) has ripple effects that reach far beyond the readership here.
It seems (to me) folly to simply write that off, because at the end of the day, no matter how storied your alliance's past, the fact remains that in total, H? consists of 12M population (out of a total 190M).
In other words, there are a whole lot more of "them" than there are of you, and it strikes me that that's precisely why this place is important.
As to what there is to "win," I could ask you the same question about your latest contest of arms.
What do you imagine that you'll "win?" at the end, even if you destroy every Consone town in the game?
Do you think this will dissuade others from growing? (perhaps growing large enough to one day challenge you?)
Do you imagine that the losers in such a contest cannot (or will not) simply create new accounts?
The "prize" such as it is, can be won by various means, of which, military is but one.
The others should not be ignored, lest they deliver a nasty bite when it's least expected, and (based on your own reply, plus the general sentiment of others from your alliance), it seems that this is the preferred course of action for you guys.
Again...I can't very well take you to task for it, because you folks play to your strengths magnificently (it's just that...as I said previously, the diplo/metagame does not seem to be one of those strengths).
Of course, in light of all that, it makes the fact that you've taken the time to come here and have this conversation all the more meaningful to me, so thank you again! :)
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Posted By: Darmon
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 23:53
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HM, I sort of wish you had been the initial/official spokesperson for H? affairs in all this (assuming H? has any sort of system for PR considerations, I mean). There's something about the way that you approach and frame your thoughts and concerns that I find much more palatable than similar offerings by H? leadership.
Older players might have the luxury of forming opinions about H? from many months to years of witnessing positive contributions. But newer players (like me) or people with limited dealings with H? will probably have their views shifted by this war. And I'm not sure that the current representatives around these parts are painting you in the best light.
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Posted By: BlindScribe
Date Posted: 16 Oct 2012 at 23:55
Darmon wrote:
HM, I sort of wish you had been the initial/official spokesperson for H? affairs in all this (assuming H? has any sort of system for PR considerations, I mean).
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+1
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Posted By: JimJams
Date Posted: 17 Oct 2012 at 00:42
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Sunstorm is a friend, the alliance he joins doesn't change it.
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Posted By: Kumomoto
Date Posted: 17 Oct 2012 at 02:37
JimJams wrote:
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+1. SS will always be a friend.
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Posted By: Silverlake
Date Posted: 17 Oct 2012 at 03:23
I will always think highly of Sunny
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Posted By: abstractdream
Date Posted: 17 Oct 2012 at 05:27
BlindScribe wrote:
In other words, there are a whole lot more of "them" than there are of you, and it strikes me that that's precisely why this place is important.
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Posted By: SunStorm
Date Posted: 17 Oct 2012 at 06:15
Thanks guys - I wish you all the best!
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Posted By: Vanerin
Date Posted: 17 Oct 2012 at 15:15
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I very much agree with Darmon. Excellent posts HM. Thank you.
~Vanerin
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Posted By: Rasak
Date Posted: 19 Oct 2012 at 09:32
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I wish you well SunStorm :D If you ever need any help with anything. Feel free to ask :D
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