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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 15 Jun 2015 at 18:28
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In the world of debate and discussion it has never been considered the "proof" of a point to reach over and slap your opponent silly.   I don't think it should be allowed here either.

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What if the point is that you can slap your opponent silly, in that case providing an example of you actually doing it is pretty good proof.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 15 Jun 2015 at 18:32
yes its a game, the forum is part of it. no the game is not that important...too bad u dont play it like that cause it will always bother you or you will make it more than a game...seems you already have????? winks...gosh i hate to play monopoly with you.....
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 15 Jun 2015 at 19:24
Originally posted by abstractdream abstractdream wrote:

...and like baseball, if you lose in Illy, you play again.

I understand the interest in posting in a forum discussion but it gets to a point where redundant becomes the nicest thing to say about it; eventually one is posting just to read what one wrote. Maybe evolve the discussion a bit? Try this one: http://forum.illyriad.co.uk/elgea-and-bl_topic6440.html#87292


"if you lose in Illy, you play again?"  Let's see now....you are painting a wonderful painting and after six months of work I run over it with a truck..."but hey, if you lose it you can just repaint it!" right?

It's always easy to tell a person to start over when it's not you who is doing the restarting.  Baseball has 9 innings (usually) and ends with one or the other teams is ahead.  Illy is an open ended thing that really doesn't end and so it is one ongoing game which, the longer you play, the more you have invested in time, energy, creativity --- and thus the more you stand to lose if you are driven out of the game.  And people have been driven out of the game.

So let's evolve the discussion by admitting what many seem to want to minimize...the harm of having people destroy what you've spent months and years building, even if it's "just a game."  A painting, after all, is "just a painting."  Nobody who is a builder wants their buildings, real or imaginary, needlessly destroyed.  And at the same time some of us want to have a free discussion without risking more than our intellectual pride.

I looked at the post and wasn't sure why it was relevant.  Perhaps I missed something.  I'll look again and let you know.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 15 Jun 2015 at 19:27
LOL.  I'll give you that narrow victory.  Yes, if the point is you are trying to prove that you can slap your opponent silly, and you proceed to do so, it may be relevant and actually proof.

Fortunately, the proof of most points in debate isn't proved by such a demonstration.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 15 Jun 2015 at 20:01
Originally posted by twilights twilights wrote:

yes its a game, the forum is part of it. no the game is not that important...too bad u dont play it like that cause it will always bother you or you will make it more than a game...seems you already have????? winks...gosh i hate to play monopoly with you.....


The forum is NOT part of the game.  If it were you would be required to do SOMETHING in the forum, and since you are not, it's completely separate.  The game can be played without the forum, the forum is not integrated into the game other than a call to it, and, technically, it's probably in a different part of the hard drive and may be even on a different server.  In fact, if I come to the forum as my alt, I sign in as my main.   I even wondering if you left the game you couldn't continue in the forum.

Underneath this whole discussion is the question of boundaries.  What are the boundaries for behavior between the game and the forum?  Are there any?  If everything devolves into force (which many seem to think the appropriate venue for all questions) then you may be right.  But since Illy is a sandbox it would be nice if some of us could "play" the forums based upon our powers of persuasion (or at least argument) rather than devolving into the force of armies (imaginary to be sure). 

In civil discussion it is generally accepted that personal attacks are illogical and show bad faith.  How much more so attacks on the hard work the player has put into his or her cities?  Thus, the question, as you seem to indicate is: "Is the forum an extension of the game?"  I've put some of my reasons for believing that it is not in the preceding paragraph.  I will now add some thoughts about why it should not be treated as an extension of the game even if it technically may be so.

First, the forum is a place of discussion.  Which do you prefer, an open and honest debate of ideas, or a constricted one in which challenging ideas are kept at a minimum out of fear of reprisal?

Second, the forum is a place of civility in discussion.  The general rules put up by the owners of the forum allow for debate but include a lot about uncivil behaviors and rules to combat such behaviors as "bullying."  They wouldn't have those rules if they did not wish there to be a bit of civility in the forums.

Third, and finally, which do you think should be the proper response to a non-threatening and appropriate post: the opponent to the post should just go out and drive the player from the game, or the opponent should put forth his or her reasons and reasoning about the question at hand?  Which do you think pushes the discussion toward discovery and understanding more?  If you attack my cities for what I say in the forums, would you consider that a better type of "debate" and more civil?  I think not.

Thus, ideally speaking, a place for open, good and civil discussion and debate enhances the game if you consider it a part of the game, and enhances the game even if it's not part of the game.  Whether technically part or not, the threat and intimidation implied if you make it too much a part of the game destroys the civility of the discussion and thus lessens the quality of the Illy experience for those who wish to discuss things in a open, good and civil manner.  I would humbly suggest that those who do not wish to discuss things in such a manner should start their own threads and title them "Discussion Brawl" so we know the level of intellectual honesty and civility to expect should we wander in.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 15 Jun 2015 at 21:04
Originally posted by ajqtrz ajqtrz wrote:

The forum is NOT part of the game.  

actually it IS part of the game, if it wasn't then the Devs would not require you to have an in game account to register as a forum member and the Devs would also allow you to log on anonymously.  whether you participate in this part of the game is your own choice but simply because most players do not participate in this part does not mean it is not part of the game.  and your answer to the question of "what are the boundaries between the forum and the rest of the game" that is spelled out in the ToS, read them.  

as for members of the forum that no longer play, that is irrelevant, anyone can check to see if they are still playing and if they are not they can ignore them.  but also you need to consider that there are some members of the "illy community" that helped found the conventions that most of us play by today that no longer play themselves.  the opinions of these players do still effect how players that play today do things simply because those players were extremely well respected and honestly in my opinion the number of troops you have does not matter because there is always someone with more, what really matters is how well you are respected as a player by the other players of this game.

if you want to have a location to actually debate stuff for debate's sake then i suggest you start/join a blog instead of looking for that type of audience in a game.  most people that join games just want to have fun and don't want to argue unless they have troops backing them up.  (which you need to remember, simply because someone stops responding to you doesn't mean they agree with you it may just mean they see no reason to waste their time arguing with you anymore)

as to your argument that someone can drive someone else from the game because of a post that is "non-threatening and appropriate."  there are plenty of large decent players in this game that you can ask for assistance, if your post was really "non-threatening and appropriate" you would not be the one driven out, it would be the player trying to drive you out which is all part of the "Meta Game"
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 16 Jun 2015 at 02:30
Originally posted by ajqtrz ajqtrz wrote:

Originally posted by abstractdream abstractdream wrote:

...and like baseball, if you lose in Illy, you play again.

I understand the interest in posting in a forum discussion but it gets to a point where redundant becomes the nicest thing to say about it; eventually one is posting just to read what one wrote. Maybe evolve the discussion a bit? Try this one: http://forum.illyriad.co.uk/elgea-and-bl_topic6440.html#87292


"if you lose in Illy, you play again?"  Let's see now....you are painting a wonderful painting and after six months of work I run over it with a truck..."but hey, if you lose it you can just repaint it!" right?

It's always easy to tell a person to start over when it's not you who is doing the restarting.  Baseball has 9 innings (usually) and ends with one or the other teams is ahead.  Illy is an open ended thing that really doesn't end and so it is one ongoing game which, the longer you play, the more you have invested in time, energy, creativity --- and thus the more you stand to lose if you are driven out of the game.  And people have been driven out of the game.

So let's evolve the discussion by admitting what many seem to want to minimize...the harm of having people destroy what you've spent months and years building, even if it's "just a game."  A painting, after all, is "just a painting."  Nobody who is a builder wants their buildings, real or imaginary, needlessly destroyed.  And at the same time some of us want to have a free discussion without risking more than our intellectual pride.

I looked at the post and wasn't sure why it was relevant.  Perhaps I missed something.  I'll look again and let you know.

AJ
First, let me just say that I have started over...not quite from scratch but I have been beaten down and come back.

Second, it was a metaphor. I'm not going to defend it ad infinitum because it just isn't that important. It was an addition to a previous post and if you wish to dismiss it with a flippant attitude, so be it.

Third, I wonder, if it is so important that what you do in a game be preserved, why would you play one with potential to have all your work wiped out?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 16 Jun 2015 at 09:35
Originally posted by abstractdream abstractdream wrote:

Originally posted by ajqtrz ajqtrz wrote:

Originally posted by abstractdream abstractdream wrote:

...and like baseball, if you lose in Illy, you play again.

I understand the interest in posting in a forum discussion but it gets to a point where redundant becomes the nicest thing to say about it; eventually one is posting just to read what one wrote. Maybe evolve the discussion a bit? Try this one: http://forum.illyriad.co.uk/elgea-and-bl_topic6440.html#87292


"if you lose in Illy, you play again?"  Let's see now....you are painting a wonderful painting and after six months of work I run over it with a truck..."but hey, if you lose it you can just repaint it!" right?

It's always easy to tell a person to start over when it's not you who is doing the restarting.  Baseball has 9 innings (usually) and ends with one or the other teams is ahead.  Illy is an open ended thing that really doesn't end and so it is one ongoing game which, the longer you play, the more you have invested in time, energy, creativity --- and thus the more you stand to lose if you are driven out of the game.  And people have been driven out of the game.

So let's evolve the discussion by admitting what many seem to want to minimize...the harm of having people destroy what you've spent months and years building, even if it's "just a game."  A painting, after all, is "just a painting."  Nobody who is a builder wants their buildings, real or imaginary, needlessly destroyed.  And at the same time some of us want to have a free discussion without risking more than our intellectual pride.

I looked at the post and wasn't sure why it was relevant.  Perhaps I missed something.  I'll look again and let you know.

AJ
First, let me just say that I have started over...not quite from scratch but I have been beaten down and come back.

Second, it was a metaphor. I'm not going to defend it ad infinitum because it just isn't that important. It was an addition to a previous post and if you wish to dismiss it with a flippant attitude, so be it.

Third, I wonder, if it is so important that what you do in a game be preserved, why would you play one with potential to have all your work wiped out?

+ 1 to both you!

Illyriad have its own Beauty and it never restarts... the faith of your cities depends on YOU and not on your leaders or even the alliance.

Here's my tips if you are afraid of getting wiped-out:
  1. Stay away from politics. This is the best defense that I've ever seen so far.
  2. If you are really impatience, can't get rid of politics and eager to throw stones: BUILD MASSIVE ARMIES, create a tougher confederation, influence bigger players to join you and wipe-out your enemies.
  3. Lastly, stay quiet and grow your cities and ignore Global Chat. Play it like farmville or what ever you wish do to so and keep growing... and SHUT UP!
I respect those player who lives peacefully and want to engage more in combat. 

Illy and BL have a room for everybody, lets enjoy it.  

Disclaimer: The above is jcx|orcboy's personal opinion and is not the opinion or policy of Harmless? [H?] or of the little green men that have been following him all day.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 17 Jun 2015 at 02:19
Correct me if I'm wrong, but you seem to be saying that if somebody wants to play what Rikoo calls an "aggressive style" I need to play the "head in the sand stork" style.  In other words, the players of the game have no real say so about what that "aggressive style" means and if I don't have the power or the friends to defend me, well too bad for me? 

Somehow telling players that if they want to play peacefully they have to restrict themselves to also being nice quiet people sitting in the corner doing but what you say they can do, "build their cities."  Of course, if they happen to build their cities in the wrong place, happen to say something, even in jest, in the wrong place to the wrong person, they risk the "aggressive play" because, well, you have determined that's how the game will be and is being played?

Seems to me all I'm hearing is a circular argument.  "You must play this way because you must play this way."  How about justifying from an ethical framework why I should allow you to determine what the "right" way to play Illy is. 

As for the forum being a part of the game, as I said in my post, even if it is, which I don't believe to be true, but even if it is, the ethics of "crossover" competition is not based upon any ethical standard of which I'm aware.  I laid out my ethical standard, how about somebody doing the same for the other side.  Start with the basis of your ethics and argue from that.

As for the potential for having my work wiped out, I assume that my postings in the forums would be treated with civility.  The question we are facing is whether that assumption should be the standard of the forums or some other less tasteful standard should apply.  Much of what this and other discussions have talked about is the issue of civility in the forums.  I've laid out my ethics re why I think the forums should remain a civil "side" to the game, others have not yet done so.

Finally, I'm in Illy.  I didn't plan to come here to start a bunch of debates, but when I saw what I saw I thought it was important enough to the community to take up.  When a person sees something he thinks is dangerous to the group would you really rather have him slip out the side door and not warn the group?  I think not.  So I bring up what I bring up and argue what I argue because I care about the community.  I assume you present counter-arguments for the same reason.  If not I would humbly suggest you move to a game where war is required and nobody expects it to be a sandbox. (see how the very argument you suggest by your statements can be turned around and logically applied to yourself?)

AJ

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 17 Jun 2015 at 02:33
Originally posted by ajqtrz ajqtrz wrote:

Originally posted by abstractdream abstractdream wrote:

...and like baseball, if you lose in Illy, you play again.

I understand the interest in posting in a forum discussion but it gets to a point where redundant becomes the nicest thing to say about it; eventually one is posting just to read what one wrote. Maybe evolve the discussion a bit? Try this one: http://forum.illyriad.co.uk/elgea-and-bl_topic6440.html#87292


"if you lose in Illy, you play again?"  Let's see now....you are painting a wonderful painting and after six months of work I run over it with a truck..."but hey, if you lose it you can just repaint it!" right?

It's always easy to tell a person to start over when it's not you who is doing the restarting.  Baseball has 9 innings (usually) and ends with one or the other teams is ahead.  Illy is an open ended thing that really doesn't end and so it is one ongoing game which, the longer you play, the more you have invested in time, energy, creativity --- and thus the more you stand to lose if you are driven out of the game.  And people have been driven out of the game.

So let's evolve the discussion by admitting what many seem to want to minimize...the harm of having people destroy what you've spent months and years building, even if it's "just a game."  A painting, after all, is "just a painting."  Nobody who is a builder wants their buildings, real or imaginary, needlessly destroyed.  And at the same time some of us want to have a free discussion without risking more than our intellectual pride.

I looked at the post and wasn't sure why it was relevant.  Perhaps I missed something.  I'll look again and let you know.

AJ

I think its rather safe to say I've restarted more than anyone here, all of them perfectly willing, all of them equally enjoyable. In fact, I would offer up that I've had more fun than I normally would have, by just keeping to one account in either a peacenik or war focused alliance. 
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