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Starry
Postmaster
Joined: 20 Mar 2010
Location: California
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Posted: 09 May 2012 at 03:48 |
Rill wrote:
You were laying siege to a city of a player in their alliance. They first contacted you, then took steps to remove the siege. They did not whine, kvetch or attack you. They sought resolution through diplomatic means -- which is more than you did -- and took a reasonable step to defend their interests.
As you noted, the player was suspended -- there was no rush for you to siege the city, it wasn't going to do anything to hurt you. People make mistakes, and I think in this instance your player made one. Perhaps it could have been handled better on Valar's side as well, but this is the sort of situation where reasonable people back down and agree to put a minor incident behind them -- not to escalate it as you are doing with unreasonable demands for compensation.
You sieged a city in their alliance. You don't get to act all wounded that they dared to fight back. Or does H? have some special right to not have anyone even resist attempts to take whatever it wants, without regard for proper diplomatic process?
Just because you CAN doesn't mean you SHOULD. This behavior is beneath you. |
I realize I'm posting in vain, since most of you including the last poster haven't read the topic: The suspended player had disputes with Malpherion going way back to when he was in Invictus: Invictus leadership neglected to support one of their members when this guy deliberately moved 3 squares from Malph's city. Malph did nothing at that time, he waited until the player left the game. He showed far more patience than I would have in the same situation. Moving three squares from any player without permission is unacceptable to most alliances in this game. You are incorrect Rill, while we admit Malph should have contacted Valar about his plan to raze the city before he sent his siege, Valar jumped the gun and sent armies to destroy the siege BEFORE they discussed the matter with the leadership at H?. In fact, as soon as Malph received a message from Valar and forwarded it to me, I contacted the leadership at Valar. Their actions have not reflected the desire to resolve this issue through diplomatic means; very similar to past dealings we've had with this alliance. H? will never apologize for supporting a player defending his sovereign area and given the posts you've made in this forum, you've defended your right to do the same for your members.
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Rill
Postmaster General
Player Council - Geographer
Joined: 17 Jun 2011
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Posted: 09 May 2012 at 03:31 |
News Flash, H?: People are not saying you're wrong because you're the big kahuna. We're saying you're wrong because you're ... well ... wrong.
I'm the first to give H? credit where you do something right and to defend if you are unjustly blamed, but that doesn't mean I'll turn a blind eye when you fail to live up to your ideals and your reputation.
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Brids17
Postmaster General
Joined: 30 Jul 2010
Location: Canada
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Posted: 09 May 2012 at 03:15 |
HonoredMule wrote:
Brids, if my sense of justice were half as perverted as you so frequently claim, you would have fallen victim to it long ago. I remain quite content with how I have applied the term, if not with how it protects your freedom of irrationally biased expression.
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I so frequently claim? The last time I disputed something about H? was back when some alliance was claiming some square of land and I mentioned H?'s land thing, which I later admitted I misunderstood as a land claim when it really wasn't. That was months ago now. I wasn't aware you thought I held some kind of grudge against H? but that's certainly not the case. I don't agree with everything H? does but should be a given. In regards to my comment, I just feel self imposed justice is rarely well received, especially in a sandbox game. Take that as you will.
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Rill
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Posted: 09 May 2012 at 03:12 |
You were laying siege to a city of a player in their alliance. They first contacted you, then took steps to remove the siege. They did not whine, kvetch or attack you. They sought resolution through diplomatic means -- which is more than you did -- and took a reasonable step to defend their interests.
As you noted, the player was suspended -- there was no rush for you to siege the city, it wasn't going to do anything to hurt you. People make mistakes, and I think in this instance your player made one. Perhaps it could have been handled better on Valar's side as well, but this is the sort of situation where reasonable people back down and agree to put a minor incident behind them -- not to escalate it as you are doing with unreasonable demands for compensation.
You sieged a city in their alliance. You don't get to act all wounded that they dared to fight back. Or does H? have some special right to not have anyone even resist attempts to take whatever it wants, without regard for proper diplomatic process?
Just because you CAN doesn't mean you SHOULD. This behavior is beneath you.
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Bartozzi
Greenhorn
Joined: 04 Jul 2011
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Points: 96
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Posted: 09 May 2012 at 03:04 |
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I'm not commenting or taking sides on this situation, other than to throw in my two cents about current VALAR leadership, as I recently experienced in a potentially sticky pickle. Without getting too much into the exact details, as they are irrelevant IMO, I
made a mistake re: city placement that put me in a tough position
relative to needing to ask a VALAR player to accommodate me. He (and his diplo representative) were swift, understanding, polite and incisive in their communication and action. The matter has been resolved, I have wiped the egg off my face, and I now have respect for the two players who acted so clearly and responsibly. Kudos!
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HonoredMule
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Posted: 09 May 2012 at 02:48 |
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Rill, the reports we've received about Valars comportment with other
alliances does not reflect the same revival of character you testify.
As for why we personally wouldn't like them we have simply to cite the
continued presence of many of the accounts with whom we had problems in
the first place and the very conversation Taelin posted, demonstrating
how they've handled this conflict. There are also other recent
issues--in particular they've been quite greedy with abandoned city
claims, holding far more than they have the ability to act on in a
remotely
reasonable time frame--but what is here for all to see is beyond
sufficient to justify saying we "don't like" an alliance. It's not
exactly a declaration of blood feud.
Nevertheless we dealt with Valar on this issue as fairly as we
would deal with any other alliance. It is they who chose to act before
talking, and if you take a look at
the timestamps of our conversation you'll see that even after this we "tried diplomatic
channels" for over a week before both reaching a clear impasse. As
far as I'm concerned, we were as patient and considerate as could be
reasonably expected of any alliance.
At the end of the day, we serve our own membership and not Valar's
interests. They reacted entirely out of proportion (we were removing an
offending city of a Suspended account while they have more such
cities than they can use, they attacked an active player--and their
"warning" fell far short of enough time to ensure a fair chance of
recalling even if we would). We
restrained our reaction for a reasonable duration. Even now hostilities
are far more limited than open warfare, so long as they do not give us
cause to escalate further.
Brids, if my sense of justice were half as perverted as you so frequently claim, you would have fallen victim to it long ago. I remain quite content with how I have applied the term, if not with how it protects your freedom of irrationally biased expression.
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Rill
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Posted: 09 May 2012 at 02:19 |
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Interesting HM ... and why do you dislike Valar? Clearly you had problems with them previously, but they have new leadership and seem to have been comporting themselves admirably for some time now. Are you planning to hold a grudge forever against people who were in no way involved in any actions against you?
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Brids17
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Posted: 09 May 2012 at 02:19 |
I think VALAR had every right to attack the siege encampment. If this player was suspended, any sov he had claimed could be disputed, so the city was destroyed for no good reason. H? should have mailed and asked VALAR to capture the city if they wanted to and then exodus it to somewhere else, instead, they moved in and sieged it without even speaking to VALAR first? Poor taste. If anything, H? should be paying compensation for a perfectly good city being destroyed without any notice to the alliance that it was in, not the other way around.
HonoredMule wrote:
I wish to thank Taelin for sharing with Illyriad how reasonably we deal with even disliked alliances behind closed doors in both attitude and expectations, and also how far we are willing to go to enforce justice and fair dealing on behalf of our membership.
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I'd be careful about using words like "justice" HM. Especially in a matter like this.
Edited by Brids17 - 09 May 2012 at 02:32
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HonoredMule
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Posted: 09 May 2012 at 02:15 |
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This conversation was concluded when we reached an impasse in private negotiations. Now it is in public, which isn't a surprising result. I'm not going to re-read that unformatted mess to ensure there's been no tampering with the statements or selective exclusion of details, but a quick scan does appear to suggest it's a faithful copy. Assuming that, I'm quite content with how Harmless is represented and consider no further explanation necessary.
I wish to thank Taelin for sharing with Illyriad how reasonably we deal with even disliked alliances behind closed doors in both attitude and expectations, and also how far we are willing to go to enforce justice and fair dealing on behalf of our membership.
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Rill
Postmaster General
Player Council - Geographer
Joined: 17 Jun 2011
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Posted: 09 May 2012 at 00:59 |
The troops were lost when they were attacking a member of another alliance. Going to war and then demanding compensation for your losses seems a little over the top.
H? could have chosen to resolve this through diplomatic channels -- or at least to attempt to. Instead, they proceeded directly to war. Moaning about the consequences of that decision seems sort of ... well ...
Edited by Rill - 09 May 2012 at 02:06
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