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Mr Damage
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Joined: 01 Jan 2011
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Posted: 21 Feb 2014 at 22:00 |
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HM, you are slowly coming to a balanced viewpoint throughout these posts, respect for that. I would like to ask you the same question I asked KP previously, which remained unanswered. Will H entertain the decision to surrender? If they won't, then I don't see how you can argue the case that the force against you is just a bunch of bloodthirsty punks intent on destroying alliances and accounts for fun. What is the alternative outcome if someone refuses to surrender? Now I'm not saying you should surrender, I understand there is tremendous pride amongst the H brand but the war will continue until there is nothing left on one side if neither side will concede won't it?
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HonoredMule
Postmaster General
Joined: 05 Mar 2010
Location: Canada
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Posted: 22 Feb 2014 at 06:58 |
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Mr Damage, my perspective may seem to be changing but it's not really. I'm simply opening up a little more because these last conversations will conclude my legacy here and I'd like to leave something besides the slander and vitriol that until now derailed any dialog. Of course I don't always think everything Harmless and its members do is perfect, but I am mostly satisfied that we conducted ourselves honorably. And in cases where that wasn't so, I did speak out - you just wouldn't know about it. Internally, we've always enjoyed strong mutual respect and intense loyalty, and that comes partly from respecting our peers and members - even when we disagree with them - too much to air out disagreements and dirty laundry in public.
As to surrender, the way I see it is this: while I can acknowledge occasional (read: uncommon) missteps in past conflicts, in this conflict Harmless is in the blameless right, vCrow et al are in the wrong - and in a big, clear-cut way. Pride it may be, but to us surrender is equivalent to admission of wrongdoing in this war, of the variety that legitimizes their actions and furthermore rewards them for taking them. So no, as far as we're concerned it is not an option for us.
We will not reward an enemy for winning an unjust war they started, but instead make that victory as costly as we possibly can. And then once truly defeated, we can walk away from the game with our hands clean of the matter, while the entire community is left to deal with the victor and the new landscape that creates. If we play our cards right, we won't even be around to say I told you so when entirely new social norms take hold and abuse of power is expected rather than speculated. Frankly, we've spent long enough absorbing verbal abuse and all the while just trying to show a better way to play and uphold integrity.
Now if you ask for an alternative, I can offer a perfect one. Let those bloodthirsty hordes which started this war and brought about this chaos and destruction surrender. It is not our place to pay reparations for not having possibly been able to handle the situation any better or more honorably. Or at the very least, individual players could start taking a little responsibility for themselves and consider that there could possibly be reasons to leave a war besides direct personal loss. Heck, I'd be impressed if someone could just put a stop to the active combatants running and hiding in training alliances without actually surrendering or accepting terms.
Of course the winning side backing down won't happen, so the intractable impasse remains. And I gave warnings at the beginning of this war, which so far show every sign of coming true. I'd rather not be here when that happens anyway.
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Rill
Postmaster General
Player Council - Geographer
Joined: 17 Jun 2011
Location: California
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Posted: 22 Feb 2014 at 07:37 |
Not being willing to acknowledge mistakes and the effects of those mistakes might be part of the problem. Acknowledging your past mistakes and the harm they have caused might be a good first step toward reconciliation -- if in fact you have any interest in reconciliation. It seems from your post that you see no future for yourself in Illyriad. I have been in that place -- it certainly affected my decisions.
I think there still can be room for all of us in the future of Illy. Harmless? is not perfect. Neither it is the cause of everything that is wrong. Perhaps some of the wrong lays with those of us who were content to allow Harmless? to "run things" (and take the blame for showing initiative).
Crows, EE, Soon, Shade -- none of these alliances are perfect either. You are correct that the future will be challenging. Personally I think that the future of Illyriad will be brighter with Harmless? in it than without.
Maybe there will be a time when those who have taken up arms will lay them down. I think indications that Harmless? and its allies have done some soul-searching and can acknowledge their past mistakes would go a long way toward creating that possibility.
I expect to be roundly mocked and met with much derision for these views. Probably some people will see them as manipulation. It saddens me that we cannot trust each other as we once did. I hesitate to even post this because I am not looking forward to the scorn I am going to receive -- probably from both sides.
Nevertheless, this is what is in my heart.
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Mr Damage
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Posted: 22 Feb 2014 at 08:00 |
Thanks for answering HM. Your perception of surrender is perhaps where the impasse lies and shall remain. Conceding defeat to an opponent is also a respectable way of ending battle. By your understanding of surrender, all those who have surrendered in previous wars were the ones in the wrong? Or is this definition of surrender limited to this war only? That is perhaps a conflict right there and can lead you to where this situation began to materialise.
Personally I agree with Rill on one point at least, Illy will be a lesser place without Harmless and NC, just as it is without White and Black. So the future direction of Illy will weigh heavily on the victors and those who decide how to settle terms at the end of this war. This is a huge responsibility and I hope those who make these decisions can realise this when doing so.
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Rupe
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Points: 39
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Posted: 22 Feb 2014 at 08:38 |
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[QUOTE
Of course the winning side backing down won't happen, so the intractable impasse remains. And I gave warnings at the beginning of this war, which so far show every sign of coming true. I'd rather not be here when that happens anyway. [/QUOTE]
You may not wish to be here HM but many of your warriors who will fight to the end with you may. Isn't it time you thought of your colleagues too?
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Deranzin
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Posted: 22 Feb 2014 at 08:45 |
Rupe wrote:
You may not wish to be here HM but many of your warriors who will fight to the end with you may. Isn't it time you thought of your colleagues too?
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Why do you think that he didn't ask or that he doesn't know their opinions .?. 
I'd sign under what HM posted every day of the week ... especially this part :
HonoredMule wrote:
We will not reward an enemy for winning an unjust war they started, but instead make that victory as costly as we possibly can. And then once truly defeated, we can walk away from the game with our hands clean of the matter, while the entire community is left to deal with the victor and the new landscape that creates. If we play our cards right, we won't even be around to say I told you so when entirely new social norms take hold and abuse of power is expected rather than speculated. Frankly, we've spent long enough absorbing verbal abuse and all the while just trying to show a better way to play and uphold integrity.
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Though I admit that I will stick around and watch the show afterwards 
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Ander
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Points: 1269
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Posted: 22 Feb 2014 at 09:07 |
HonoredMule wrote:
Several Consone alliances didn't want to be a part of the first war, and as a result we didn't want them to be either. The ones who just felt they were fulfilling their treaty obligations don't seem to have made much appearance this time around.
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That is not correct. The two alliances Harmless directly declared war on last time, are not involved in the current war.
Those alliances who were fulfilling their treaty obligations last time - EE, Vicx (even 'World's End' and Valar indirectly) are at war with you now.
You have a faulty theory into which you try to fit things. That is why you draw the wrong conclusions.
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HonoredMule
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Posted: 22 Feb 2014 at 09:23 |
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Well Mr Damage, I can't think of any other case where war began (for additional
parties) after a conflict was adequately resolved. The Consone war had
similarities in that the catalyst was not the real war - only
representative of the underlying causes - but it ends there. In every
single case where Harmless has been involved in a war, something was
happening that needed to stop, and surrender was equivalent to making
that change under duress. The party that had to surrender was the party
that needed to repent from some past or continuing action: stop
harassing allied newbies in training alliances, don't try to claim
exclusive ownership of an entire province through force, take diplomacy
more seriously, take responsibility for the actions of your members,
stop defending an ally that needs to change and won't, etc.
But here there's nothing to change, only a changing of the
guard through violence. It would be an entirely different story if
these aggressors had been willing to make peace with NC, but because
they would not there is no honorable recourse but to stand by them. We
aren't the ones who removed the option of diplomacy, so to what would we
surrender except a pillaging of our resources and shaming of our
integrity?
We also cannot pay restitution when we are not at fault,
therefore any surrender terms are purely profiteering (especially if
there's no ongoing battle to later rejoin). If you really want to see the community degrade fast, watch what happens when war becomes widely perceived as a highly profitable venture.
In order for us to admit defeat and concede the loss
to our enemy, they'd first have to admit having goals already achieved.
Thus far, the incongruity between their stated grievances and
subsequent overturning of an initially-accepted resolution to those grievances
leaves us with a war that continues in absence of (publicly admitted) objectives. If
there's nothing we can change, and they don't stop on their own, then
their objectives cannot not be corrective in nature and must also not be yet reached. The natural conclusion is that our complete destruction is their objective. Surrender would just be a brief pause for humiliation before continuing. Oh, but we (internally, at least) don't have to rely on that kind of speculation anyway. Between leaked intel and candid statements that would never be repeated publicly, we know bloody well what certain key players want, and it is quite incompatible with our survival in any meaningful capacity.
If the enemy can admit their objectives, we can acknowledge whether they've reached them, and if our complete destruction is not their objective, then this should satisfy them. That's still entirely different from surrendering though, because the
principle is simple: if you stand for what's right, then you do so
regardless of the outcome. To surrender is to repent from doing the
right thing. We simply cannot do that.
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Halcyon
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Joined: 17 Aug 2012
Location: Israel
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Points: 360
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Posted: 22 Feb 2014 at 09:25 |
Before the war Dark and Harmless were still allies and we conveyed to H? leadership our unwillingness to stand by while NC continued their campaign of aggression. The answer was always the same: any action against NC will result in full support to them by H? and The Coalition. When H? leadership declared war on EE they did so in support of NC and TVM and were beginning to make good upon that promise/threat. They actively supported NC and TVM aggression and have no real cause to claim the high moral ground. They expected to win this war as they did all those who came before it. They were wrong. While Illyriad and Elgea will be poorer without H?, NC, TVM and Dlords, if these alliances remain active after the war, they surely need to consider a major change in leadership. Arrogance fueled by past victories led them into very poor choices. They were not the benevolent rulers who HM is attempting to paint them.
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Mr Damage
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Posted: 22 Feb 2014 at 10:39 |
Nice post Halc, you guys are probably in a unique situation having been on both sides at different times. I feel there will be closer truths coming from Dark than anywhere else.
HM perhaps if you adopt the same demands about revealing true motives yourselves then maybe the bridges of peace can be built. You cannot ask such things from someone if not prepared to afford them the same. H have their skeletons just the same as everyone else, who is prepared to admit to them?
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